How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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What I need from you?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can you make a fake K-pop group? It can be with any idols.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What is one thing nice you did for someone today or something they did for you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

What's an uncomfortable truth you've learned to accept?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can you tell me a depressing story?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why do some young mothers trick a guy into believing that they're pregnant and it's their child when years later they find out that it's not even theirs should he still pay child support or not?

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.